to love or to be in love?

so i was talking to vince the other day during dinner at venezia and we got into a conversation about love. i think there is a major distinction between being in love and just loving someone. i think the main difference is that you can love multiple people at one given time and it doesnt have to be romantic, but to be in love, its more of a romantic love and you can only be in love with one person at a time, but its not like a soulmate in that you can be in love with different people throughout your life. anyways, been kinda stressed--probably shouldnt use that word, more just like busy and i see the pile of stuff to do piling up. got my ears pierced at industrial strength--so expensive $67! but i think it was worth it in that i dont want some 17 year old that was hired yesterday piercing my ears with a gun. sigh. very sleepy. can't wait until april 9th. counting the days.